What should trump everything else?
We all make priorities in our lives.
Instinctively, we choose what is most important and what is less, and then seek to live with as little inconsistency as possible.
Would life, or love, faithfulness, choice, God, Atheism, or coffee, or whatever, be the priority that trumps all else in the core of your being? Or would it just be your sexual identity?
What about serving others, kindness, family, safety, meaning, morality, or faithfulness?
What is your reasoning for your decision?